I am many things, and this website is going to be part of integrating all of them. As of this writing, 3/23/2025, I am a 56-year old woman, unemployed, soon to be thrice divorced, mom to three grown children - two by birth, nana to one grandchild, auntie to two, sister to one by birth, daughter of two aging divorced parents, ex-wife to two fathers of my children, mother-in-law to two, niece, cousin, daughter in law, ex-daughter in law, neighbor, friend, ex-lover, ex-friend, former co-worker, fur and feather mom, friend of a friend, former classmate, or a perhaps a name you recognized from social media somewhere.

None of that really says anything about me, but assumptions are starting to be made in your mind. I am a registered Democrat, I am white, I am a registered gun owner, I am an experienced shooter and enjoy it, I am residing near a very small town, I am above average intelligence, I am above average tech savvy, I am above average anxiety, and I am diagnosed ADHD.

Any new revelations? Do you like me more or less because you know these things about me now? Were you wrong about anything you assumed from my first paragraph? Let’s go on.

I just presented you with a bunch of “I AM” statements, did you make them about you in your head, like you would with affirmation statements? Or, did you read it as me telling you the information? How do you know I’m telling the truth? No one is ADHD, by the way, they have ADHD.

None of those statements are particularly shocking to most people, although I am sure I have raised some eyebrows now. Add I am a witch, I am a Priestess, I am a healer, I am a Pagan, and I wasn’t any of those things five years ago.

I am a work in progress, the best I’ve ever been. How good will it get? I think you should be interested in finding out.